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Getting To Commitment Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language, and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment issues or involved with someone who is.

He's Scared, She's Scared Available for the first time in paperback, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.

Men Who Can't Love This book saved me from going crazy and from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded just like the people in this book she'd read - "Men Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the same time.

I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality This is a great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual to other are understandable and can be explained and treated.

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JUST FOR TODAY:

12/11: I am grateful for my abilities. I accept what I cannot change about myself.

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12/10: When I ask God "Where are You?"..... I will know that He is still there- working through people that I encounter every day....

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12/7: I am grateful that Miracles do exist, and the feelings of hopefulness that they will occur.

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12/6: I will not allow my feelings to be minimized, by myself or others. I accept that releasing them in an appropriate way is healthier for me and my relationships with others.

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12/4: I am grateful for the lives that have touched mine.....which all serve a purpose in my growth.

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12/2: I am grateful for my Awareness, born of Denial. Just For Today I will not be tempted by the 'triggers' of codependency. I will acknowledge them, but not allowed myself to be 'hooked'.

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12/1: I feel blessed with my pain, as I compare myself with someone that is paralyzed and numb, unable to feel.

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11/29: I accept that which I cannot control, and do not understand. Today, I will accept what God wants me to see, without questioning His motives.

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11/28: I am grateful for my ability to feel pain. Without it, I would not know joy.

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11/26: I am grateful for my ability to be alone and enjoy my own company. Through my appreciation comes the awareness that I cannot expect another to fulfill what I may lack.

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11/24: I will not allow another's insensitive behavior to affect me. Today I choose self-empowerment and detachment instead.

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11/23: I accept that which I cannot change. I am grateful for the wisdom and ability to change that which I am able to.

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11/22: I am grateful for my gift of giving.

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11/20: I will strive for bettering myself, rather than striving to become perfect. I accept that which I cannot be.

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11/18: I let go of my worries, giving the outcome to God, instead.

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11/17: I forgive myself for hurt I've caused to myself. I will not "beat myself up" for mistakes, but will instead be grateful for my lessons. For Today, I will dwell on self-love instead

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11/15: I will not cry for the past, nor worry about the future. I will live for Today.

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11/13: I will not dwell on the hurt from loving, but instead, I am grateful for my ability to Love.

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11/10: I will not dwell on what and whom I cannot control...surrendering that power to God. I accept that I have power and control over myself and my own actions only.

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11/9: I accept what I cannot change, and release my desires to control/change others to God's hands.

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11/8: I will express anger in an assertive, direct and appropriate way. I accept that this is healthier for me, as "stuffing" my anger may lead to misdirected anger, or depression.

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11/7: I will make amends with myself. I will forgive my faults, and try to better myself. Today, I will embrace my growth.

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11/5: I accept that God's plan is not always known. I trust that what is unknown to me will be safely in God's Hands.

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11/4: I will count my blessings, rather than what I am lacking.

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11/2: I will be direct in communicating my needs. I will not allow myself to manipulate, nor be manipulated.

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10/31: I will accept any trying challenges that may come my way, gracefully.....knowing that they are God's lessons. It is my Reaction to them that will make the difference.

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10/29: I will be grateful for the lessons that I've learned, however painful. I will embrace my growth.

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10/28: I will accept that another's ways are not my own, and respect our differences. I will not attempt to change another, nor change myself to suit another.

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10/27: I accept responsibility for my own feelings and behavior. I will not feel responsible for another's.

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10/26: I will Let Go of that which is not meant for me. I will have Faith in my inner voice, and God.

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10/25: I will channel my energy away from another's negative reactions, towards embracing myself with self-love.

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10/24: I will keep the focus on changing myself. I accept that I cannot control and change another.

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10/23: I will detach in a loving manner. Detaching doesn't mean "coldness". It is owning our power in a calm, peaceful way.

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10/21: I will not allow another's reactions/non-reactions to affect me in a self-desctructive way

For more help recovering from a Codependency-Breakup read the book How to Get Over a Breakup

The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up The essential female companion from the first moment he walks out of your life! The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up offers step-by-step advice for getting over him.

The Hell with Love: Poems to Mend a Broken Heart Finally a book of poetry that describes every emotion you go through when you are in love and heart broken. This book is amazing and wonderful. I recommend it to who ever loves poetry and ever had a broken heart.

He's Just Not That Into You (The Newly Expanded Edition): The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit? In easy psychological terms, this book helps a woman understand why a man may react negatively to her even when she feels she's doing everything right for a relationship. With different female personalities portrayed, the reader will find themselves fitting one or more of the profiles.

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